Protecting Our Children with Autism: A Call to Vigilance and Love

Every parent’s heart holds the same prayer: “Please, Lord, keep my child safe.” For those of us raising children on the autism spectrum, that prayer becomes a daily vigilance, woven into the fabric of our routines.

Too many times, I’ve read headlines about a child with autism going missing—and my heart shatters all over again. These aren’t just stories; they are children, precious souls, beloved sons and daughters. And the truth is, children on the spectrum are at higher risk of wandering or “eloping.” It only takes a moment, a distraction, a door left unlocked. The danger is real, and it’s one that we as parents must take seriously.

I know this from experience. When my son was younger, he was an eloper. At just four years old, he could slip away in seconds. Though he no longer does this now, the memory stays with me. It’s why even today, I keep alarms, cameras, and I still sleep close by him. It may seem extreme to some, but for me, it’s simply love in action.

Practical Ways to Protect Our Children

If your child is an eloper—or even if they aren’t right now—these safeguards can help bring peace of mind:

• Door & Window Alarms: Small devices that sound when opened can be lifesaving. They’re inexpensive and can alert you in the critical moment.

• Cameras & Monitors: Baby monitors aren’t just for babies. Many parents of older children with special needs use indoor and outdoor cameras for an extra layer of protection.

• Wearable GPS Devices: Companies like AngelSense provide GPS trackers designed specifically for children with special needs. These allow you to know where your child is at all times and even listen in to ensure their safety.

• ID Bracelets: A simple bracelet with your child’s name, diagnosis, and your contact info can help if they are ever found by a stranger or first responder.

• Community Awareness: Make sure neighbors, teachers, and even local police know your child may be prone to wandering. A caring community can respond faster in an emergency.

• Layered Supervision: Sleep close, use childproof locks, and keep consistent routines. Small measures add up to big protection.

A Final Word

Our children are gifts—unique, beautiful, deserving of both freedom and safety. While we can’t wrap them in bubble wrap, we can surround them with vigilance, love, and practical safeguards.

It’s not paranoia—it’s parenthood. It’s not overprotection—it’s love in its fiercest form. And together, by raising awareness and sharing resources, we can help ensure that fewer headlines break our hearts.

Let’s keep the conversation alive. Let’s protect our children, every single one of them.